| Marcus Sims Age: 26 Event promoter |
Frenchye Bush Age: 32 Fashion consultant |
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Best local singles spot:
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D’Vine Wine Bar. “Lots of seating, fun groups of mixed singles and good drinks.”
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Happy hour at D’Vine or at XO. “It’s a really sexy restaurant with a cool vibe.” |
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How to approach a girl:
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Be yourself and make conversation. “Ask for her e-mail instead of her number — it’s no-pressure, but you can still leave a note.”
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“Be yourself, and show interest in what she’s saying.” Asking for her number is OK. But, ladies, if you don’t want him to call you, be honest.
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“If you lead with ‘Buy me a drink,’ I won’t talk to you. If we’re having good conversation, I’ll get you one, but I don’t pay to play.” |
“I still think the guy should approach the girl, but if there’s a guy you’re interested in, let him know in a tasteful way. ... If you want a cocktail, buy your own.”
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| But don’t ever... | Use a pick-up line. | |
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Look your best:
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Keep it simple. “I’m a jeans-and-polo-shirt kind of guy. I’m into mixing style and affordability, because it’s timeless.”
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Always look classy. “You can wear a skirt or jeans, but if you’re going to dinner, don’t show too much skin.” |
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Be sure to avoid ...
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Clothes with huge logos, such as Armani Exchange. “There are some girls who love that, but more who don’t.”
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Trying too hard. “Don’t stand outside in the cold in a short skirt and tank top. Dress appropriately.” |
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To text or not to text?
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“If you text someone, sometimes they can’t tell how you meant it. But if you can work it, it’s a good thing.”
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“The initial conversation should be a phone call. Don’t ask me to dinner through a text unless we already have a relationship.” |
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Go for women who have something to bring to the table. Often women in their late 20s and 30s are more independent and aren’t just looking for a husband. | Don’t try! Go out and have fun with your friends. “I met my boyfriend right after college through a friend. When we went on our first date, he was totally himself, and we had so much fun.” |
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A city with style:
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Denver. “It’s a great city. It’s always voted in the top five in The Scene for singles — [it’s] a really good scene.” |
L.A. “They don’t try so hard. You can look good in a cute shirt, nice bag, heels and jeans. ... Don’t forget the sunglasses.”
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10.8% of married people met their spouse at the bar.
School was the No. 1 answer with 26.3% of the vote.
