Fashion & Trends

Travis and Amy Hafner

by The Editors | Nov. 7, 2007 | 5:00 AM

photo by LCD Photography

Trying to plan a wedding when your fiancé is Travis Hafner, the 29-year-old designated hitter for the Cleveland Indians, might seem like a daunting task — his baseball schedule only leaves November and December open. But Amy Beekman, 26, from Westlake, didn’t care when they got married. She was just excited to plan her wedding.

Not Quite a Grand Slam
The two first met in December 2003 when Amy was working at Five Seasons Sports Country Club in Westlake. Travis, who had just been traded to the Indians from Texas, became a member of the club. “To tell you truth, I really didn’t like him at first,” she says. “I thought he wasn’t the brightest light on the Christmas tree.” The two started out as friends for a year and a half playing racquetball before deciding to go on a date in April 2005.

Analyze This
After picking out an eternity band with a 3.5-carat diamond ring from Mavilo Wholesalers in Tampa Bay, Fla., in January 2006, Travis, who likes to overanalyze everything, spent two weeks trying to figure how to propose. “There was a week when it was 55 degrees, but it felt like 70,” Amy remembers. “We went down to the lake because he knows how much I like the lake. We were just walking during the sunset on the beach in Rocky River.” Travis, who was really nervous, kept hugging Amy before he finally said: “I haven’t been so sure of anything in my life.”

Who Needs Superstitions?
Travis got a sneak peek at his bride before the ceremony. The two met in the lobby of the Hyatt and shared a private moment before taking pictures at the Hyatt and at Jacobs Field.

Smooth Moves
The couple’s first dance was to “Far Away” by Nickleback. “I couldn’t see Travis dancing to something like Etta James’ ‘At Last,’ ” Amy says. “It went pretty well,” says Travis. “I mean I’m not going to be on ‘Dancing With the Stars’ anytime soon.”

Gifts Galore
Travis picked out a Michelle watch for Amy and she choose a Hermes money clip for him. “It has an H on it like Hafner,” she says.                               


At first the two wanted a small wedding, but after the guest list flew past 250 people, they knew it wasn’t going to happen. That was okay with them, though. “Just seeing everybody, that’s what truly makes it special — having all your friends and family come in,” says Amy, the head cheerleading coach at Baldwin-Wallace College.

The couple held their ceremony and reception at the Hyatt Regency Cleveland at The Arcade because of its history and all the beautiful details, from the skylights in the lobby to the golden ceilings. Plus, it was a place to stay for family who traveled from Travis’ hometown in North Dakota. Other guests included teammates Grady Sizemore and Casey Blake, manager Eric Wedge, general manager Mark Shapiro, plus coaches Joel Skinner, Derek Shelton and Carl Willis. Hank Blalock of the Texas Rangers, John McDonald of the Toronto Blue Jays and wrestler Jerry “the King” Lawler also attended the Nov. 11 nuptials. Travis, who is Catholic, and Amy, who is Jewish, opted for a dual ceremony and chose religious components such as a unity candle, the breaking of the glass and having Amy’s mother and father walk her down the aisle.

Amy chose the first dress she saw — a lace and Swarovski crystal beaded Henry Roth dress from The Perfect Bride in Rocky River. “I saw it the day after I got engaged. I just happened to be getting fitted for a bridesmaid dress,” she says. While she forced herself to try on about 20 other dresses, she ultimately came back to this one. She paired the dress with a Henry Roth fingertip lace and Swarovski crystal rectangular veil. Amy borrowed diamond chandelier earrings from Mavilo Wholesalers and wore her great grandmother’s engagement ring on her right hand.

The six bridesmaids, including Amy’s 13-year-old sister, wore twisted-front halter dresses by Watters and Watters, also from The Perfect Bride, along with gold shoes and earrings. “The dresses looked great on everyone,” she says.

Steven M. Tokar from Steven M. Tokar Custom Floral and Design created different moods for each part of the day. “You never can really picture what it looks like. It was honestly better than what I had expected,” Amy says. “The flowers and the decorations were absolutely breathtaking.”

The ceremony took on a heavenly atmosphere with lighter-colored flowers and was performed under a very elaborate huppah, a Jewish wedding tradition, covered with crystals and cream-colored roses and hydrangeas. For the cocktails before the reception, Tokar used red and black velvet linens reminiscent of the Great Gatsby era. For the reception he chose bold, tall gold vases with red roses and crystals. Tokar created Amy’s bouquet with dark, red roses, and her bridesmaids carried gold-colored messenger roses. A gold monogrammed box filled with Malley’s Irish crème truffles was placed at each seat.

Guests feasted on a burrito bar, sushi display and Starbucks coffee before sitting down to a plated dinner of a mozzarella and tomato salad and their choice of veal medallions, filet mignon, lamb or sea bass. Travis welcomed everyone and then toasted his new bride: “Amy’s a really happy person 99.9 percent of the time and her smile really lights up the room, but it’s my job to make sure she’s happy 100 percent of the time. I’m going to do that,” he said. “He made half of the women cry,” says Amy.
Jerry Bruno Orchestra and a disc jockey provided the entertainment. But the bridal party was treated to additional fun when they were announced. “Travis actually picked me up and carried me in,” says Amy. Each person in the bridal party also had their own song, including “Chariots of Fire” for Travis’ brother and “Wannabe” by the Spice Girls and “Barbie Girl” by Aqua for two of the bridesmaids. “It was a good icebreaker,” Amy says. “It was a formal affair, but we wanted everyone to relax and have a lot fun. When you do an entrance like that where everyone’s laughing, you know it’s okay to go out there and dance.”
After the introductions, the couple cut the five-tier cake with red roses in between from Wildflower Bakery in Rocky River.
Once the reception was over, guests were escorted to Pickwick & Frolic for an after-party featuring martinis and music from the ’80s cover band The Breakfast Club. “It was a blast,” says Travis. “It was the perfect band for us.”
The couple spent the next few days opening gifts and enjoying married life. The duo also traveled to Columbus to watch The Ohio State University football team take on the University of Michigan and then back to Cleveland to take in the Cleveland Browns against the Pittsburgh Steelers before jetting to St. Thomas, St. Bart’s, St. Martin’s and other tropical vacations. “So far this has been the best day of my life,” says Amy. “There is nothing I can compare to it.”
“I was just amazed at every aspect of the wedding at how well it all turned out,” agrees Travis. “It was great. I had a lot of fun.”

— Kim Schneider

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